Wanting to slow down, I embraced a digital detox as I surrendered to the restorative rhythm of Vala House, a yoga and wellness sanctuary near Knysna. During a week-long wellness retreat, I spent my days doing meditation, yoga, somatic therapy, saunas and ice baths – and simply breathing.
Quote ‘Eager Journeys’ when booking Vala House for a 10% discount; friends or couples sharing receive 20% off.


My skin is radiating the dry heat of the infrared sauna. I focus on the soft clicking of icicles in the ice bath. The thermometer reads 6 degrees today. I submerge myself to the collarbones. My entire body tingles with a pricking sensation. This instantaneous physiological response releases an involuntary gasp. I force my breath into a deliberate slowness – lengthening the exhalations to convince my nervous system that it is safe.
And so, if you’ve ever wanted to slow down time, this is the way to do it. Two minutes dilate as I gaze across the dew-sprinkled lawn of Vala House, through the rising mist. Horses graze along the perimeter fence against the outline of the Knysna Forest. Three other guests, with plumes of steam trailing from their bodies, head towards the dam on the neighbouring property. Water splashes and squeals echo back from the tree line.
As I step out, energy surges from my core back to my fingers and toes, followed by a sharp clarity. This is the payout of vascular constriction during hot-cold (thermal contrast) therapy that stimulates the vagus nerve. It is the superhighway of the parasympathetic nervous system that connects the brainstem to all major organs. The rapid drop in heart rate and blood pressure shifts my body from a fight-or-flight response to a calming parasympathetic state. I’m all for this kind of wellness retreat.
A yoga and wellness retreat along the Garden Route
Yogi and coach Peter Townshend established Vala House to create a space for healing. He did so with the help of a community of philosophy teachers, breathwork practitioners, ceremony facilitators and healers. This yoga and wellness sanctuary offers artistic immersions, rejuvenating burnout retreats and Yoga Teacher Training (YTT) programmes. The focus is on nurturing resilience, cultivating genuine self-expression and allowing for mindful reflection through movement, breath, art and relaxation.
The tranquil countryside manor gave me the time and space to rewrite the frantic script of modern-day life for a week. Away from my laptop and phone (by choice, as this is not a requirement), in favour of quietly reading near the fireplace to the carefree sound of Geoffrey, Haidee and Lucy snoring, as only dogs do. Their languid naps last for hours, reminding me of the necessity of rejuvenating rest without any feelings of guilt.


The weight of constant decision-making evaporates into a restorative daily routine during a wellness retreat. There’s no logistical calculus to navigate besides showing up for myself in whatever way feels right. My mornings begin with the singing bowl signalling meditation. This flows into an hour-long yoga class, suitable for all skills levels. A wholesome breakfast at the communal wooden table follows the sauna-ice bath. And there’s free time before and after lunch.
My intention is to dilute that habitual urge to plan and busy myself with something so as not to allow my mind to wander, to process, to feel, to heal, to simply be. Any excuse that now is not the time. Life only seems to accelerate. As my birthday approached, I recognised that if I don’t intentionally make time in my schedule, it’ll surely never come. There’ll never be a good time to slow down, to breathe, to listen to my body and regulate my nervous system.
Shinrin-yoku in the Knysna Forest
Mother Nature anchored my stay, from the hearty vegan meals to the location and ancient ecosystems along the Garden Route. On the second day, we lace up our boots (only to take them off again) for a four-hour forest bathing immersion into the old-growth Goudveld Forest, led by nature conservationist and biomimicry educator Sue Swain.
As mud squelches between our toes, our bare feet connect to the forest floor allowing us to recognise the infinite wisdom of nature’s presence, patterns and principles. Above us, the sky is obscured by the interlocking crowns of ancient Outeniqua yellowwoods. Their trunks are wrapped in coarse lichen, overgrown in cushiony mosses and draped with old man’s beard.
Beneath a yellowwood canopy, Sue explains the ‘fluid dynamics’ of the forest: how the multi-layered leaf architecture of various trees soothes the impact of a downpour, dissipating the rain over several hours so it trickles down the trunks and drips onto the leaf-littered forest floor so as not to erode the topsoil. It becomes a meaningful observation of how a healthy ecosystem slowly distributes external stress over a collective network.



Sweat lodge experience
The following evening, Geoff Brown who comes from a long lineage of Xhosa water pourers, guides a sweat lodge in the garden at Vala House. The low dome of woven branches and twigs, covered in multi-coloured blankets is a cocoon for a transformative metamorphosis of purification, intention setting and emotional cleansing.
Outside in the fire pit, rocks have been fire-baked for hours until they glow red in the dusk. Once they are brought inside in three stages, Geoff ladles water onto them with a scallop shell. They hiss and release dense steam that hangs heavy, bordering on the unbearable. Coupled with his guidance, the heat is a catalyst that cracks open our defensive walls to releases deep-seated emotions. It’s an integral part of the wellness retreat that allows us to leave certain elements behind.


Yoga-focused retreats at Vala House
Yoga extends far beyond physical fitness and flexibility. Books like The Body Keeps the Score by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk illustrate how our bodies physically store chronic stress, trauma and unexpressed tension within our tissues. Because we cannot think our way out of stress, active physical relaxation and breathwork are essential to sink back into our bodies, release this deeply held tension and restore a baseline balance. The yoga practice at Vala House targets body mechanics and different states of the nervous system though:
- Vinyasa Flow: Active, breath-synchronised morning sequences that build internal heat, flush out physical toxins and mobilise stagnant energy.
- Yin Yoga: Restorative evening sessions involving passive and gentle floor postures held for 3-5 minutes, using supportive bolsters and blocks. This targets the deep connective tissues and fascia where emotional tension is physically locked away.
- Yoga Nidra: A guided practice of complete stillness that induces a state of conscious deep sleep. By dropping brainwaves into alpha and theta states, a 45-minute session provides the brain with the restorative benefits of three hours of deep sleep.
In-house Yoga Teacher Training (YTT)
Besides wellness retreats, Peter and his team also host 50- and 200-hour Yoga Teacher Training (YTT) programmes in conjunction with Yoga Alliance. The latter is an in-house, 24-day somatic immersion that welcomes yoga students of all levels from around the world, regardless of whether they’ve even stepped on a yoga mat. The curriculum is structured for intimate groups of five students for personalised attention from the instructors. Days are filled with immersive theory and practice focussing on the anatomy, biomechanics, lifestyle and psychology of yoga.
Students explore the ancient Yoga Sutras to study mind mastery, relationship dynamics and how to live a life without suffering, under the guidance of local and visiting teachers. This Yoga Teacher Training course includes wellness activities and intentional rest in a place that begins to feel like home (accommodation and meals are included).
The daily wellness retreat schedule at Vala House
Guests may arrive on any day of the week and stay for as long as they like. The restorative burnout recovery retreat, I partook in, suggests a minimum three-day stay. It includes a reiki session, sweat lodge experience and forest walk. Guests can customise their wellness journey with a choice of treatments (at an additional cost), such as massages and beauty treatments, alongside somatic breathwork, Emotional Freedom Technique (tapping), and TRE (Tension and Trauma Releasing Exercises). There’s also art, dance and poetry therapy to take part in, among other activities. And while you’re visiting the gorgeous Garden Route, Vala House also organises outdoor excursions from horse riding, hiking and canoeing to paragliding, ziplining and marine eco-safaris.
6:30 am – Meditation
7 am – Yoga with pranayama and nidra
8:30am – Sauna and ice bath
9:30 am – Breakfast
10 am – Healing/coaching session/Free time
1 pm – Lunch
2 pm – Healing/coaching session/Free time
4:30 pm – Yoga with meditation, pranayama and nidra
6 pm – Dinner
7 pm – Free time



Book a wellness retreat at Vala House
Quote ‘Eager Journeys’ when booking for a 10% discount; friends or couples sharing receive a 20% discount.
The refurbished tractor shed and beautifully renovated country house has eight elegant en-suite rooms that are divided between standard (R3200/night) and deluxe (R3800/night). A stay includes all the activities in the schedule above, meals, snacks and drinks. Each light-filled room prioritises minimalism with a splash of colour, features photographs of yoga asanas, and is home to pot plants.
Contact: www.valahouse.co.za; info@valahouse.co.za; 071-166-4854.